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Break Up

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                      আজ আমরা কথা বলবো ভাঙ্গা হৃদয় (Break up) নিয়ে। আমাদের মধ্যে এমন অনেক মানুষ আছেন যারা প্রেমে প্রতিনিয়ত আঘাত পাচ্ছেন এবং পেয়ে চলেছেন। অনেকের প্রেম ভেঙে গেছে, এছাড়া কত মানুষ আছে শুধু প্রেমের কারনে প্রতিদিন প্রতিরাত কাঁদছে। শুধুমাত্র একটু ভালোবাসার জন্য নিজের জীবনকে শেষ করে ফেলছেন ।                  আজ আমি এই সম্বন্ধে নিজস্ব বিচার বুদ্ধি দিয়ে কিছু মত প্রকাশ করব। প্রথমেই বলব আপনি এক মিনিট ভাবুন যে আপনি কার জন্য কষ্ট পাচ্ছেন? যে মানুষটি আপনাকে প্রতিদিন প্রতিটা সময় কষ্ট দিচ্ছে আপনি তার জন্য কাঁদছেন। কান্না থামিয়ে ভাবুন যে আপনাকে কয়েক বছর রিলেশানে এত কষ্ট দিল সে কি আপনাকে সারা জীবন সুখি রাখতে পারবে?                   আমার কাছে ভালোবাসার প্রকৃত অর্থ দুজন ব্যক্তি একই জিনিস ভালোবাসে বা একই ধরনের চিন্তাভাবনা করেন এটা নয়, বরং আমার কাছে ভালোবাসা মানে একে অপরের চিন্তাধারার এবং ভাবনাকে সম্মান করা এবং প্রাধান্য দেওয়া।                                   -: সম্পর্ক স্থাপনের আগে কিছু নিয়ম :-   আমাদের নিজেদের সুরক্ষার জন্য এখন থেকে কোন ব্যক্তির সাথে সম্পর্ক স্থাপন করার আগে ত

Depression

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              Hello friends,  hope everyone is well. Today we are going to discuss about Depression. We will discuss on what is depression and how to overcome it. Let's first find out what is depression?         In general, any unexpected event have a profound effect on person's mind and he loses the meaning of survival. As a result, almost all these people do wrong things at this time. Such as sudden anger, attempted suicide, etc. Also takes many more wrong decisions. Naturally, by these signs, it is possible to identify whether a person is in tension or not. Some people get anxious and suffer for the same thing over and over again, these signs indicate whether someone is depressed or not. Most of us are affected by depression. That could be for a many reasons. We get frustrated when we don't get what we want and can't accept that thing. Many times we are affected by depression for all these things. So first of all we should be happy with what we have and should not ex

Save the animals

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Today we will discuss about animals, it can be any animal. First of all, thanks to all the people who worked tirelessly for these animals. Today I will share some of my personal views on how to protect animals.          First we talk a little about the plight of animals. Just imagine, during this lockdown we art at home for protecting ourselves, but they are wandering the streets like helpless. We are at home,  taking some food to survive but they don't even get food to satisfy their hunger.          We stay safe in our own homes during natural disasters but they soak in the rain all day and all night on the street or under a tree with small children. When they finds a small piece of food, thee runs and brings it for their children. After seeing these, there are many ruthless people who do not feed animals rather they mix poison with food. That day I saw a video of a little kitten with a rope around its neck and being try to crush it with feet. I also saw another video where a cat

Internal Smartness

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    Hello friends, hope everybody is trying to stay well, because now lockdown is going on, that's why we can not say we are fine. However come to the point, today we will discuss about Smartness .   What is S martness?     Let's discuss about our general idea regarding smartness. We generally considered those people as smart who have attractive dress, attractive look, attractive figure or who is very rich. But really are they smart?       Let's try to make an idea who are really smart; According to me, that mother is smart who after death of his husband, do not find  shelter in her Father-in-law's house try to bring up her child by her own effort. According to me, smart is he/she who after breakup did not suicide rather he/she tried to find reason to alive by learning from that situation; because failure gives us many lesson which cannot be achieved by reading books.        So do not show attractive look or dress to be smart rather try to be smart from inside, that is

One tree is one life

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Acharya Jagadish Chandra Bose             Today we will talk about Tree's life and it's importance. We all know that Acharya Jagadish Chandra Bose discovered that Tree's has life in the year  1901 on  10th May. If you torn leaves or cut  branches trees are also feels pain like us, they also bleed. Maybe different from us but it is true. Jagadish chandra Bose also discovered that trees also feel anything and can response to every excitement. But we can't hair that response normally, only if we use Crescograph machine we can understand tree's response. But I was able to feel it during the Umpun cyclone. Crescograph                 Now I will tell you how it was possible. They (trees) were desperately trying to survive when the wind was blowing hard. Then I had looked life, not the trees. Then the day after the storm, it seemed as if the whole neighborhood had become a  crematorium. Just like when a family member dies, no one smiles, the house became mourn

Experience of a destructive cyclone - Umphun

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                       I live in a small village of South 24 parganas. The date was 20 May, 2020. On this day there was a forecast and of cyclone- Umphun. Our government had announced the approximate time of the cyclone. So, according to the time, I fell asleep after having lunch a little earlier than usual to see the nature's destruction in the afternoon. Then I woke up at around 3.30 pm and sat on the verandah. I saw that the storm had almost started. And with it there was light rain. As time went on, the destruction of nature continued to increase. The trees looked as if someone was trying to uproot them forcefully. Seeing the coconut trees, it seemed that a woman with open hair, someone was trying to throw her by holding neck on the ground. Hearing the sound of the wind, it seemed as if Mother Nature was screaming in anger. I took some photos and videos at that time. Then I became speechless while watching the destruction of nature, suddenly I heard some loud noise and came o

Meaning of Arrogance

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                                 Self-arrogance is a thing that available in every human being  but some person has normal amount of self-arrogance and some has excessive.                 Through today's blog, we will try to understand how much self-arrogance is available in yourself and how to normalize  that. One more thing, if you can't love people then don't make them hurt.                 Let’s get some idea of ​​normal and excessive self-arrogance. At first we will try to understand what is normal self-arrogance. For example, you are a highly educated person. Someone, less educated than you insulted you about your education  but without telling harsh word or hurting you asked him few question, he could not answer. Then you explained to him how educated you are. Here your normal self-arrogance revealed.                 Now what is Excessive self-arrogance? There are many people around us who underestimate people by words, tries to establish himself as